Whether I think about something before or not, once the idea creeps into my mind because of others or by itself, I can’t shake it off until the possibility of it working ceases to exist. Kind of sad, yet defining, so afterwards I don’t really have the option to even dwell on it.
Meh. I want at least this one to work though, I’m getting hopeless and lonely.
Okay honestly I don’t think girls like assholes because it’s a primary criteria. I think it’s because we like confident guys. And if he comes off as a douchebag then that’s unfortunate. But honestly we’re already the girls in the relationship, we don’t need the guy to be just as girly (whatever that encompasses). We have a legitimate choice to fit society’s role of that or not. Like seriously can you imagine?!?! It would be nothing less than a shit show if both are the same.
Plus confidence is actually sexy, and all guys should wear it, because it’ll benefit both parties.
Or maybe I’m just intolerant of stupidity. It makes people weak.